We are seeing happy people. Sad people. People who make a joke of
everything and keep laughing. People who feel that others are unfair and
constantly complaining. Those who smile even in the face of problems. Those who
break down at the slightest problem they face. People who take things lightly.
People who become very tense if they miss a traffic light.
What is the difference?
The fact is, life is a mixture. It is full of happy moments and
disappointments. When you look around you, you can see beautiful things and
dirty things. Good people and bad people. Good and bad behaviours from the same
persons at different times because, nobody is perfect.
The Simple Formula: See and React only to things you like. Ignore
and Be Blind to other things.
While we cannot control what things are, we can control our
reactions. With some training, we can chose which ones to react, and which ones
to ignore. If somebody provokes us, ignore them totally, treat them as if they
do not exist. Brush it off with a smile, overcome the urge to give it back
strongly. Remember, your Life Minutes are valuable, and you cannot afford to
waste them dealing with unpleasant people.
