Friday, 27 June 2014

1243. Villains and snakes

Pursue anything, a goal, a career. Villains are sure to appear. They will actively wish your failure. The motives are too many, sometimes unconceivable. They may be sadists, driven by jealousy, or simply be victims of habit.

This happens so often, that you may take it for granted that the path to your goal will not be smooth, it will be barred by these people. Added to the normal setbacks which also are sure to appear, the situation at times dampens our enthusiasm. Many sensitive people have dropped pursuing their goals altogether, because of these.


But think again. Will a snake-and-ladder game be as interesting if it had only ladders and no snakes? Each time you cross a snake unscathed, you experience a flow of joy. This joy is effectively provided by the snake, whether you like to agree or not.

Sunday, 22 June 2014

1237. Liking and disliking people

If you are looking to find fault, wanting to feel bad about a person, you can always find a mistake done by each person you know. Then you can use this as an excuse to dislike or hate that person.

Many people routinely use this technique, to secretly hate everyone around them. Everyone they come in touch with.

This works because every person you know would have committed a mistake, which you would have ignored when it happened. You would have brushed it away thinking that it was not of consequence. But now, it will appear big enough, to start hating them.

More than a meaningful exercise, this looks like a mental game.


The same principle holds good when you try to think in the other, positive way. That is, if you are looking for a good thing they have done, in order to like that person, you will always find one. Or more.

Friday, 20 June 2014

965. Role of a Gym is to give us more freedom

A Gym helps us to gain more freedom over our body, to give us better abilities. The main areas are 1.Flexibility and dextrousness; 2.Strength or Power; 3.Stamina, Endurance or Staying Power.

Examples of restrictions which happen.
1. We are unable to do some muscle movements. This is lack of flexibility. Bending fully in front, back or the sides. Extending our hand over and down our shoulder, to touch our backbone. Lift a leg beyond half our height. Many of us even find it difficult to bend our knees, to sit on the floor.

If we try, we get cramps, dislocations or fractures. For example, try to bowl a ball for cricket, with full force. Without regular practice, your shoulder can get dislocated. Or jump down from a bench. You can easily get a fracture.

But regular Gym work gives us muscle flexibility. We are able to extend our arms/ legs, twist and bend easily, without pain. Our body becomes more elastic.

2. Some of us, particularly those in our middle age, we get tired too soon. This is low stamina, and can be easily improved. We are unable to hold our breath while swimming, even for a short duration. We are unable to dance, climb stairs little faster, or even run short distances. For example, to catch a bus. If we try, we breathe so hard, our heart beats like mad, we may even get chest pain. The risk is real, we can get a heart attack this way. But the Gym work gives us stamina. It makes our heart and lungs stronger.

3. We are unable to exert muscle strength. Like lifting something, bending or twisting something. A Gym increases our muscle capacity dramatically, so that we are able to lift a heavier item with the smallest effort.

When we try to develop a new physical skill, like dancing, swimming, karate, or even simple jogging, we find our physical abilities need to improve. Particularly Flexibility and Stamina. Sometimes the ability to lift heavy things. Suitable exercises at a Gym will achieve this and provide us with more flexibility, stamina and muscle strength to improve any of these skills.

An overall effect that proper Gym Work achieves is that it takes us out of the pain zone for the rest of our day. For instance, we do not feel tired and exhausted after climbing stairs. People who do not exercise suffer pain and exhaustion for every work they do, throughout the day. This is particularly true about older people, but applies to everyone.

Though many of us find Gym sessions(or any exercise) uncomfortable and strenuous, it is only for a short period of time in a day. But it removes the physical strain and discomfort for the rest of the day. That is good.