Part 792 : 29/11/2012
Saturation
Eat a spoon of sugar, and then have coffee. You will feel that the
coffee does not have sugar in it.
After having a lot of sweetness, our tongue becomes less sensitive
to the sweet, to the extent it feels that there is no sweetness!
Not only that, our desire for the sweet takes a nosedive, till we
start disliking them. We all know that this is a temporary feeling, and soon we
will want to eat the sweets again.
This applies to the sweetness in relationships too.
Relationships do get saturated at times, and this is very natural. Nothing wrong in it.
People should be able to identify such situations where Relationship
Saturation happens. During these times, persons need to increase their distance
from each other. This is only temporary.
Many people do not realize the human need for temporary seperation
and end up being miserable to each other. Each of them do not understand why
the other is behaving hostile.
Not understanding that the separation required is temporary, they
often break relations permanently. Soon they are longing to be back in relation
again. They are again confused.
This is why close friends feel the need to be away from each other.
This is one of the reasons that married couples want to be divorced, and
divorced couples want to be with the ex-spouse again.
There are many examples of divorced couples wanting to be together
again, after misunderstanding their psychological need to be temporarily separate.
When we feel the saturation for sugar, we do not ban sugar from our
lives. We avoid it for some time, temporarily. After some time, the sweetness
and the desire is back.
So be aware of Saturation in relationships, to have better control
of life, to enjoy life more.
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